Book: The whore of Babylon

Happiness is not when you're not in pain, and when you're protecting someone from pain.

Our main affection is our view of ourselves, that is our ego. Egocentric - people fixated on "I", they cling to him by all means, cling to him. And they absolutely do not want to accept other person such what he is. Everything in this world should be only such as they need.

Love is such thing... Love is living a Holy hope to make a loved one happy. He truly believes: if a loved one will see the depth of his feelings, will understand how much he loves him, you will never feel miserable! Never!

Paradoxical reinforcement is when you first one man and then deprive him of hope. And then again hope, again disappointed. And so on. Thus a man can be bound to itself. Formula: happiness is death happiness is death.

It's a special disease. Heart disease. Its symptom is insensibility. When you don't understand that you are surrounded by real people, that they may be hurt that they have a soul that they value. And if you see only yourself, only your "I" if you only care about your own desire and personal goals - you are. You're Garden.

All the great and significant happens suddenly. Providence Prihod of nowhere. Falls on you like an avalanche. Place and time is impossible to predict. Just need to be ready...

It was the egocentric use this popular expression: "He died for me". Well, I always in such cases I would like to ask: "And third?"

- And you just did not try to surrender? Sam said it rudely, almost with collisions, but not hysterically.
Nina looked at Sam. For a moment it seemed to him that she didn't understand, didn't hear his question.
- Just to surrender to a man? - said Sam, but others are vypilivaem tone. To lose himself, to dissolve in it? Enjoy... Just sex... Or love? To fall in love...
- To give?! - Nina suddenly burst out laughing. Is when I fucking?..
His first impulse was to kill Nina. Right there on the spot. But Sam restrained himself. Just a sick woman wants to take him out myself... Nothing happens. Got the wrong guy.
- You almost had me? Sam made a wry smile the arrogant power of the role of the Sun King. That's funny...
Now it was necessary to pretend that he was this conversation boring. He turned back to his beloved coffee machine. The water was warm. Sam pressed the button and a Cup poured is excellent, wonderfully fragrant coffee.

But in bed, here at home, nothing has changed. Nina continued to be cold, ostentatious. And although Sam was doing everything possible and impossible to let go of this twisted in her spring success he never achieved. Nina seemed to enjoy only one: from our experience, from the male shock.

Sam, you don't even like Nina - Raymond suddenly increases sharply itching, it burns your hands, neck, sides. - Tell me the truth, don't like?
I love you, Raymond. But even more, I don't like Martin.

Martin knows exactly what Nina had a crush on him. If a woman is into you, it's immediately obvious. And yet it is clear that this is a normal woman. Martin knows this brand is definitely - he likes normal women. It as a diagnostic symptom. If the woman he likes, then it's a woman thing. And if she behaves capriciously, stupid, something he wants, something is not happy - she's got issues.
And Martin a lot at it: if a woman ignores it, it means that something is wrong with her, the problems she has. He is smart, talented, sincere, resolute. It has everything you need a normal, good woman. What else do you need? Therefore, if the woman he does not like is bad characterizes the woman. And that's all. And chasing them all stupid. Correct do use.

In life too little life.

Know yourself, only using your heart Another.