Book: The art of love. Page 2



The most widespread wrong opinion that to give means to give up something, to be deprived of something, to sacrifice. That's perceived act of giving a man whose character is not developed above the installation on the obtaining, using, accumulation. The man with the "market" psychology is willing to give in exchange for anything. To give, getting nothing in return, it means to him to be cheated...
For the productive character with the installation of productive activities giving has an entirely different meaning. Giving is the highest manifestation of power. In each act of giving I realize his power, his wealth, his power. This experience high viability and force fills me with joy.
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A selfish person loves himself too much but too little, more than that - in fact he hates himself. Due to the lack of creativity that leaves him devastated and frustrerande, he is inevitably unhappy and therefore frantically tries to snatch from a life of pleasure to which he himself prevents.
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You can often find two people who love each other and not experiencing more love than anyone. In fact, their love is selfishness two... Their experience of unity is an illusion.
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If I have developed the ability to love, I can't help but love his brothers. In brotherly love there is the experience of unity with all people, of human solidarity, of human unity. Brotherly love is based on feeling that we are all one. Differences in talents, education, knowledge are not taken into account. The main thing here is the identity of human nature, common to all people.
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"Division of labor", as it was called William James, in which a person loves only his family, but has no feelings for "someone else", means a fundamental inability to love.
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If a person loves only one person and are indifferent to other people, his love is not love but a symbiotic attachment, in other words, enhanced egotism [exaggerated opinion about his personality, his virtues; self-love].
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Love for people is of no consequence, as often assumed, and the premise of love for a certain person, although in terms of development, it is acquired in love to certain people.
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Psychology as a science has its limits, and as a logical consequence of theology is mysticism, so the ultimate consequence of psychology is love.
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The true believer is imbued with the spirit of monotheism, is not praying about anything and not expect anything for himself from God. He loves God like a child, loving his own father or mother. He lacks the humility to feel their limitations, to understand what he can know nothing about God.
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In the love between adults it refers mainly to the psychic needs of the other person.
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Understanding human isolation without the reunion of love is the source of shame.
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Care, responsibility, respect and understanding - the basic elements common to all forms of love.
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Love can manifest itself only in freedom and never as the result of coercion.
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The sexual act without love can not bridge the gap between people.
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Love is the only reasonable and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence; any society that somehow hinders the development of love, must sooner or later perish.
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