SelfPub: Love does not come with ...

Love does not come with a guarantee of happiness, it already depends on two, and you can guarantee it yourself, provided that both work in this direction. Love is not always breakfast in bed, dates, cute SMS and complete understanding. Love is a huge work, this is when life hits one, and breaks another, these are sleepless nights until he / she returns from work, and you screwed up that his / her car was hit, this is the impossibility of reaching a compromise, but at the same time not to blame in nowhere slamming the door, and sit next to and say "we will try again." If you expect one romance from love, and the fact that the second person will definitely correspond to the ideal you have invented, then you will not wait. Love itself becomes an ideal, it does not care what parameters you have there, it will come, and you will wake up with the realization that it turns out that everything that you needed does not coincide at all with what you have invented for yourself. There is love, it will find you, and those who say that it only happens once are cunning. No, she just comes to someone at once, and someone kisses the frogs in order to reach her. Therefore, I insist that having lost, as you thought, love, you were sure that it is still ahead. Every time when you fail, this is another brick in your armor, and when you rebuild it completely, that very love will not destroy it, break through, it will simply open the door, and after all these bricks you will be ready to defend now. only myself, but hers as well. Love whoever you want, love the whole world at least, but never forget that love for another begins with your love for yourself. Never forget that love is not the meaning of life, and if it is gone, you have not lost the meaning, you simply insert a new brick into the wall. Never forget that you deserve the best, and know how to leave where you are suffocating. It is paradoxical that, given how everyone describes love as a wonderful feeling that gives happiness, we humans, hiding behind it, endure those with whom we are uncomfortable, afraid to leave, afraid to offend, and most importantly, we are afraid to be left alone. You deserve happiness, and life is too short to spend on people from whom you do not feed on this happiness.