prejudice [Theme] Page 4

My cage is bigger than yours, but it's still a cage. If you think that I'll change my mind, wasting my time. I don't want to.
- You know, said the nanny to the daughter this morning? "With the voice of girls born seduction". It is known to all. Women's eloquence begins the randomness. Disorder in the mind leads to promiscuity of the body. While she does not believe, but it will happen. Her life similar to the life of the mother. Get married, give birth to children for her family's honor. She will spend her youth at the spinning wheel and one day she will give birth to a baby girl. And when will die, ask yourself why she had to abide by the rules of society and God? What even the hell is better than hopelessly dull existence.

- You, the woman of the Western world... sophisticated, far away, windy...
- What?!

- Carl My. The eldest son of his Majesty, the President.
- Good morning, Carl? A good bearing.
- Look forward to exploring your decadent lifestyle.
- Expensive, easy on the turns.
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We don't want your mindless domination, cultural imperialism.
- You know, Carl, it is very easy to ruin a first impression about yourself.

How easy to make a mistake, if you judge others by yourself.

Proper sense of guilt prevents us to commit harmful anti-social actions. The feeling of guilt is necessary that our society could exist. However, the sense of guilt experienced by many women, leaving misogynie relationship, has nothing to do with "crimes against society". Most of that guilt stems from the erroneous assumption of responsibility for the actions of others, the urgent need for foreign approval, and willingness to sacrifice themselves. In this case guilt becomes a heavy psychological shackles, which only served to weaken the ability of women to leave destructive relationships and start taking care of yourself.

Sorry, but we're never gonna be friends
On the third day the dance will begin,
I'm thinking about you, thinking about me,
We will dream of each other, not to turn off the light
Because we are too afraid to sleep alone.
I'm going to suffer in bed will lengthen the night,
You're going to listen to sad music.
And in the morning we put our dreams in the trash.

Boys are encouraged to throw out a large part of aggression and anger in contact sports, struggle, competition, girls have much less ways to Express. The girls expect that they will be gentle and soft because it's "unladylike" to Express their anger by shouting, fights, or participation in aggressive sports. Although some girls these madcaps, most of us learn to Express their anger through verbal aggression. Gossip, insults and sarcasm - the most standard options, at least the girls are pouting, Cooksey and cry.

Our culture reinforces this attitude, portraying women appropriate targets for male aggression. In literature, film, television men use women as props, opponent or hostage. Here with alarming regularity women are raped, beaten, killed. Pornography suggests that the inherent seductiveness of women justifies any sadistic or sexual acts that a man would like to impose.
These cultural values provide misoginy who grew up on the fear of women and hatred of him further the right to violent behavior. Culture that from biblical times depicted women as sinful, malicious, dangerous, misogyny gives even more reasons to hate and fear and insult them. Psychoanalyst Karen Horney writes: "Men never bother to look for another opportunity to show the violence to which it pulls, when it comes to women, and to experience fear, because of her they will die or turn into nothing."
The idea that woman is evil, complemented by a utopian cultural model of masculinity imposed by society boys. This model demands that the man was strong, independent, imperturbable, holding situation and devoid of emotion. And, of course, there should not be any fear of women, nor depending on them. No man can realize this model, because it eliminates normal human feelings and needs. And certainly it is unrealistic for men, formed in childhood unmet desperate need of the love of women.

As an adult, Jerry was seen in women cold, restraint, betrayal, and at the same time, idealized them, giving kindness, compassion and tenderness. "Good" was the kind of woman who's totally focused on it. In the absence of full concentration on Jerry and attention to his needs it wakes up old feelings of deprivation and emotional support.
In this marriage, when Paul tried to meet their needs and desires, Jerry saw this as a terrible threat: if she thinks herself, so she obestochivaete it.

The tools of conquest do not necessarily have to be bombs and explosions and fallout. There are other weapons: just a thought, principles and prejudices, which can be detected only in the minds of people. For the record: prejudices can kill and suspicion to destroy it. And thoughtless, panic scapegoating emits its own radiation, which will affect the children, including the unborn. And very sad that this can happen not only in the twilight zone.

Habit is thus the enormous flywheel of society, its most precious conservation agent. It alone is what keeps us all within the bounds of ordinance, and saves the children of fortune from the envious uprisings of the poor.
Custom quietly turned into a huge flywheel of our society, has become the most sophisticated preservative agent. It alone is enough to keep us in subjection and protect the favorites of fortune from the envious uprisings of the poor.

In our country the women love to have taken a decision that the man insisted.

If both sexes for millennia have been fighting with each other if they have any prejudices against each other, typical of the struggle of this kind, how today we can establish what are the true differences?
And only when we won't think about the differences when forget traditional clichés, we can develop a sense of equality where each partner is an end in itself. Only then will we be able to learn something about the differences between a man and a woman.

Please refer to another prejudice: that men should be tough women. Each nurse will confirm that far more men than women, the injection or blood sampling is faint; that women are much better tolerate pain, while men behave like small children, and are willing to hide behind the mother's skirt. However, men have managed for centuries or even millennia to spread the opinion that they are the strongest and most resilient floors.
This is not surprising. This is one of those ideologies, which is typical for that group of people who must prove their right to rule. And if this group is not the majority, and accounts for almost half of humanity and for millennia, constantly claims that it is entitled to dominate the other half, then you need to create an ideology that would convince myself and others that right.