Book: Princesses are not born! Or the secrets of raising girls

Mom is the saving of what is significant for us, dad is the development and impetus for moving forward.

By forgiving, we become better ourselves, we make our children better and cleaner, and therefore we make a gift to the world - we help it become more harmonious. And in such a world it is more pleasant to live than in one grinning with hostility and fear, isn't it?

It is important to learn how to suppress negative emotions, but to manage them, to control and make a choice in favor of rejecting them even at the stage of their occurrence. In our country, alas, it is usually accepted in a different way: allow yourself to be offended and angry, let resentment and anger grow - and then start fighting or suppressing them: both require enormous energy costs and are completely unconstructive.

One way or another, but with a negative attitude towards the mother, it is necessary to work - first of all, by yourself, because hostility, hatred towards the mother is, in fact, hatred towards a part of ourselves, and such self-destruction is never without consequences.

By allowing ourselves to forgive our mother for her imperfections, we give both her and ourselves a chance to change - even if it seems to you that the mother is unbearable and everything is hopeless.

The very thought

The scars on the soul, although they make it less sensitive, do not decorate at all - neither those who wear them, nor even those who inflicted them.

Charity with the expectation of reciprocal payment is not charity, but a commercial project.