SelfPub: The dreamer-3

He dreamed of a scorched desert, which swept spiky ball of tumbleweed. This wilderness was on the Ground in many places after a terrible Third World War. Then killed a lot of people. Survived only one-tenth of the world's population. One of the continents was so damaged that I had to pour a new and relocate to his survivors. And in Africa, increased the area of deserts, and there just skated here are orbs, lifeless and empty. From one sand hill to another, without purpose. Gor looked at tumbleweed and thought about what his life was nearly turned here in the same dry empty ball that the wind blows on the sand.

Single mothers is a very complicated people. And this is also true. In his book, I wanted to show the entire path: from the tender, sweet and fragile girl turns stubborn and a very tough woman, ready for your child at all. And how easily it breaks like a thin twig. It didn't happen in one day. Tenderness, fragility and a loving heart are quickly forgotten, and people see these "strong women" only stubbornness, only anxiety, only stress and exaggerated independence. But their true essence is never lost with age. All of this inside. And love, and tenderness, and the desire to surround a man with care and warmth, to cook him soup and baking cakes, to be behind him as behind a stone wall - are all there, deep in the heart. Even when you think that a single woman will never have to trust people. Even when no associates, no she does not believe that in her life something can change, love still rules the world. At any age. Grows from under the pain of distrust and fear, out of tears and doubts. Grows and becomes stronger. But only when it is carefully cultivated. When a man is ready to see the stubbornness and rigidity of the present - fragility, tenderness, femininity. If he sees this, if you show it to your woman, if you convince her that you can trust him, she'll make him very happy. The only thing - to believe that love still exists and that you deserve.

Mother and child of preschool age is a special system, the whole world, contact to which you want very carefully. It is very fragile and to destroy it is impossible. The consequences can be life-long. And this is also true. This does not mean that the child needs to be glued to mom tightly. But the more time the mother and the child spend together, the better and happier it is, the more healthy the mind will be the child. And when the baby begins to grow, the distance between him and the mother should gradually increase. It should be understood Sunday the Pope, who after a divorce, trying to tear a child from his mother and to win over to their side, a longer leave at home. The child is not a toy. No need to pull. Especially do not need to threaten, to blackmail, to keep the child by force, set up against the mother. Give rest to the mother, help her to raise your baby healthy and happy. And then the child himself will love to seek you. You will remain his father even if his mother and I divorced.

Female intuition is a really strange thing. Sometimes she is able to foresee events. And sometimes to model. If Veronica was not very alarming, would be sick Aya, while visiting his dad? Would David so irresponsible? It is an open question. You cannot ignore your intuition. But it is always important to remember that our fears can materialize. Therefore, each alarm you need to sort through and honestly ask yourself, is it really a legitimate concern or unnecessary and unproductive fear. If we're honest with ourselves, our children will be healthier and happier.

After a divorce, the children often become hostages of the relationship mom and dad. Alas! This is also true. In this novel, I wanted to show that whatever the dad, the daughter can still love it. If she wants it. If he deserves it. Even if he is wrong, if he commits are not always good things. The daughter has a right to love him. But to get to love her dad - it is impossible and pointless. Mother and father is the universe of the child. He has the right to be in one half and the second. And if the parents want the child to be happy, they need to learn to negotiate. That the children were healthy and to have a good future.

Human dreams are really meaningless. And if you treat them with attention, with understanding, you can change your life. To hear their true needs. To help yourself understand the meaning of his own life. To become not just an observer in life, and a "Hub", which affects every decision and every further rotation.

The immunity of children and adults really weakened when confronted with aggression, violence, grief, shame, fear. Growing up in hard circumstances, the child will inevitably be more hurt - or body, or soul, or this way and that. The disease may be different. But they are based in most cases - the suffering of the soul. So in my novel virus is not named in any way. Just a virus. It can be anything. The love and care of loved ones, their support and attention can really be treated. This is also true. Unfortunately, not every disease can be cured by love. But I assure you, any disease with love and care can at least ease.

- Do you have someone to remember?
- Of course. I remember a lot of people dear to me. You know how much I already walk the earth? Fifth century. People come and go, are born and die. Fighting and make peace. And I'm still walking in their dreams and think: when will they become wiser, purer, kinder? All of them...
- Do you believe that will?
- Is necessary. A matter of time. Several centuries. Maybe thousands of years. Here together and see!

Anyone who has the heart and desire to help others, man. Even if he is a dog. Or if he's immortal like us.

Your life will be long... Take happiness as much as you can to feel. The only way you will be able to help people, to make them happy. After all, if you have a little happiness, you will have nothing to share with others.

Now I have to go. Need to fly to Moscow to save a couple of stupid boys, who ride on the roof of a speeding train. While the world is not extinct desperate fools and lost the meaning of life geniuses, you and I, my friend, will always be a lot of work...
- How poetic...
- The prose of life.
Ivan shook hands with Peter, he spread two huge wings and soared into the heavens.

And don't be afraid. If your story is not happened once, it does not mean that the second too will not develop. Life goes on. Write your new legend, the Mountains.

I'm sorry, Zoe. My fault.
- I have long since forgiven all, ' said the bird. And it's not your fault. It happened to me.
- No, I'm sorry. But love and blind passion, there are many different types of care. Instead of intrigue and revenge, is the children's desire to get a favorite toy I had just to take care of you. To help in a friendly way, without any concealed thoughts, without self-interest. Just to help, as it was with Veronica. Maybe you would have survived.
- But maybe not. Sometimes people die, Mountains. Those who live longer always feel guilty about the departed. But you just need to continue to live. And make happy those around you who are dear to you.

Know what a mother's love for her child? Rita describes it this way: this is when part of your body and soul walking around by itself, and all the time you miss her. If you do not know that the child begins phantom pain - heart aches, finding his piece. This is a normal human emotion, Gore. Someday you will feel it. Fathers perceive the situation differently, but also worried about their children. You will have your sons or daughters, you will learn for yourself.