Author of quotes: Eric Berne

to live means to work, to admire nature, to hear the birds singing and to say pleasant greetings to people. Moreover, all this must be done consciously or spontaneously, without dramatization or hypocrisy, with restraint and dignity.

children, especially children of alcoholics often use maneuvers that are typical for alcoholics. Children playing "Try to catch me", lying, hiding things, asking for language, looking for those they sympathize with, and usually find compassionate neighbor, giving them handouts, etc. self-Flagellation often postponed for future years.

Based on the most obvious classification is based on the following factors:
1. Number of players: game for two ("a Frigid woman"), three ("come on, damn it!"), on the five ("Alcoholic") and many ("Why don't you..." "Yes, but...").
2. Material used: words ("Psychiatry"), money ("Debtor"), body parts ("I need surgery").
3. Clinical types: hysterical ("Rape!"), syndrome obsessions ("Clumsy"), paranoid ("Why things always happen to me?"), depression ("I go again").
4. Zones: oral ("Alcoholic"), anal ("Clumsy"), phallic ("let's fight").
5. Psychodynamic: anthobia ("If not for you"), projecting ("PTA"), intereconomia ("Psychiatry").
6. Classification by instinctive impulses, masochistic ("If not for you"), sadistic ("Clumsy"), fetishistic ("Frigid man").

Fortunately, free of games of real human intimacy, which is or at least should be the highest form of human existence, brings such a huge reward that even a person with unstable equilibrium can without fear and without regret, to abandon games if they are lucky enough to meet such a close friend.

That's how life is, it's not often we fall moments of genuine intimacy, besides the human psyche can not withstand the huge stresses associated with some forms of intimacy, so for the most part, to live in society means to play the game. Therefore, games are necessary and desirable, the only question is whether as a result a sufficient reward. In this connection it should be recalled that the distinguishing feature of each game is its culmination, or payoff.

Numerous clinical data clearly show that the germ of the game is imitation, and that it originally created for Adults (neapsigausi) aspect of a child's personality. If in the adult the player manages to enliven as I Child, this component of personality (the Adult within the Child adult) that finds this psychological skill and ability to manipulate people that psychiatrists are respectfully call him a Professor (of psychiatry).

A loser never knows what he will do if he loses but talks about what he will do if he wins; the winner is not talking about what he will do if he wins, but knows what he'll do if he loses.

Empty pasta have the same taste; varieties differ in the sauce.

Realizing the man is alive, because he knows that feeling, knows where he is and when. He knows that after his death, the trees will grow still, but he can't look at them, so want to see them with all the acuteness of perception, on what is capable.

Don't you think that tonight the walls are perpendicular?

One of the most important things in life is to understand reality and all time to change our ways in accordance with it, because that's what these images determine our actions and feelings, and how they more precisely, the easier it is to achieve happiness and to be happy in this ever-changing world where our happiness greatly depends on the other.

A great man is the man who either knows how to understand what the world around him, or trying to change the world for his current image.

Fairy tale "little Red riding Hood" teaches us that the dangerous wolves roam the forest where they can meet young girls.

The destiny of man is determined by what happens in his head when he is in conflict with the outside world.