monogamy [Theme]

I used to think that in order to satisfy the need for romantic love and sexual relationships, while in marriage, there were only two choices: monogamy or infidelity. None of the options worked for me. It turned out that there is a third solution: polyamory, or emotionally open, conscious and responsible non-monogamy.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/everyone-top/202206/is-ethical-n...

Apart from the author's contribution to the destigmatization of the topic of polyamory, the book does another important thing - it brings people to the question that many are afraid to ask themselves: by choosing monogamy, did you really CHOOSE it? And can we talk about CHOICE if you have absorbed the idea of finding and retaining “The One / The One” from childhood? ..

You know how hard it is to find a decent man in this city? Most believe that monogamy is some kind of tree.

Need each other is one thing, but monogamy is quite another. And if the first still exists, though, and undergoes evolution, the latter is something like the Dodo or trilobite.
But monogamy is one thing and chastity is another, and if the former still exists, however metamorphosed by the evolutions of the era, the latter is one with the dodo and the trilobite.

If strict monogamy is the crown of virtue, then the palm should be given a tape worm, 200-300 segments of which contains one male and one female sexual apparatus, and the whole worm, all life is engaged in that each segment has intercourse with himself.

And monogamy does not seem to me to yield,
Among strangers - I don't feel accepted.

That monogamy turned into monotony, we must vigilantly ensure that tenderness and her expressions alternated with something else.

The assertion that it is impossible all life to love the same woman, it is equally unwise as to believe that a famous violinist for a performance of different songs need a completely different violin.

Better to plow your own field, than to seek greener pasture on the side.

- ... for me to meet in parallel with another man was like to try to cram extra dress in to the top scored the suitcase.

Not sure how regular guys manage to live with a single woman for several decades. It is already an endangered subspecies, isn't it, father?

Buddy, as much as we have loved, monogamy is too cruel invention.

One man to succeed, we need the orchestra, and the other one violin.