Author of quotes: Andrew Joyce Brothers Here

"Never feel sorry for yourself!" - this is a private, but very important rule.

There is reality, and it is inaccessible to us. We receive from her some signals and transform them into our vision of the world. It seems to us objective, correct, accurate, but it is always wrong.

With the help of consciousness, the brain forms a kind of convenient interface of reality - and not for the sake of truth, not for the sake of truth, but out of purely utilitarian considerations: so that we, so to speak, do not twitch.

The main thing that we have now understood is that we are our own brain. Neither our consciousness nor our ideas about ourselves are worth anything.

We are sure that what was in the field of our attention is reality, but in fact it is only its edge, a piece.

We will never return to previous animal Paradise from which we were expelled. Even Alzheimer's in the us it will not return. This film is exposed, the protective layer is removed. Will have to play this game until the end.
Born, we are doomed for life. Becoming a reasonable person, we are doomed to live in the culture, and it is complex and contradictory.

The problem is that our lives "beast" (the brain) in the world of culture and social relations, and then the opposite: you win only in case, if you act with reserve and ahead of the curve.
We were not created by nature for life in the culture medium. That is why we are trained and brought up like any other animal, even in the terrible dream not prividitsya.

Learn to experience the pleasure of ignorance, the joy of uncertainty, the incompleteness, from... perspective.
Until you are able to experience curiosity and interest, your life, believe me, you will like it. As soon as you feel that you all know she will lose you value.

After all, any truly informed us in ignorance as a challenge! Others know and understand, and you're not - it's cool, here is something to think where to move, what to achieve! You may be able to understand, understand better than others and surpass them.

The Creator of asepsis, Hungarian obstetrician Ignaz Philipp Semmelweis was, was raised by colleagues for a laugh, and then recognized as mentally ill in the belief that doctors must disinfect their hands and instruments before surgery. During his lifetime Vincent van Gogh was not sold any of his paintings, and hospitals for the insane he, too, failed to avoid.
It's a dead end road - look for recognition. Even if you do not reach extremes, as in the case of Semmelweis was, there is another, very real risk. If you motivate yourself by the expectation of public recognition, you are dependent on others ' evaluations and in some point can no longer do what is considered really important. This happened with many, and believe me, it is a heavy psychological trauma.

No other recipes, but this one is working: don't think about "prospects", they are not (perhaps you will die tomorrow - what kind of prospects are we talking about?), use the opportunities you have and they will open you to new opportunities, which will also have to use it.
As we've discussed, the target appears after the occurrence of a real commitment, and not before. This might seem odd to you. But do you think it was the antelope breeds hunger of a predator, or he first comes hunger, and then he finds on the open savannahs, the wildebeest?
In Savannah, a variety of antelopes. We can say that there is a "wealth of choice" of antelopes. But it's not them, the fact - hungry or not, you need this antelope real or not. If you are hungry for achievements and storming new peaks - this is the level of your ambitions. Do not deceive yourself, it is no good will not result.

When you have a true friend, you actually know not for him, and about many of his relationships with other people. You know he's in a relationship with your parents, husband (wife), children, boss and subordinates, with your other mutual friends. It is this relationship and ask him, so to speak, the psychological amount in your perception.

"The wealth choice" made all the difference. Now you can access social network or a special mobile application and a someone to come together to once again "try to pair". But if a partner can always be changed, then why tolerate any chicanery on his part? Why bother to delve into some of the nuances, strain? As a result, relations between the young (and not so young) people are becoming more and more superficial, and as a result short - term.

Consciousness may be as many try to convince you of the value of marriage, the value of personal qualities of your partner, but if the marriage itself (himself this Union, this "concession") no tangible benefits your brain does not promise, he will roll the dice.