Author of quotes: Virginia Satir

Throughout life we make conclusions based on personal experience, but neither one of them almost never has nothing to do with what we really are, neither to our intentions.

To survive, we need to we hugged four times a day. To feel full, you need to be hugged by eight times. To grow, we need to we hug twelve times.

In the education of children is the only way - trial and error. No matter how much you read and no built hypothesis, many things are learned only on the job. I know a psychologist who lectured on parenting. The course was called "the 12 basic position on education". Then he got married and after the birth of the child wrote a new course called "12 tips on parenting". After the birth of the second child the course was called "12 tips on parenting," and after the birth of her third child, he stopped lecturing.

I am me.
In the whole world there is no person exactly like me.
Of course there are people similar to me, but there is no one, repeats me.
Everything that comes from me, it's only mine because it's my choice.
To me belongs all that is in me: my body, my movements, my mind, including all thoughts and ideas that pass through it.
My eyes and what they see, my feelings, whatever they may be, anger, joy, irritation, love, disappointment, delight. My mouth and all the words that he utters, whether they are polite, nice, or hard right and wrong.
My voice, soft or rough, and all my actions are aimed at me and others.
I own my triumphs and successes, mistakes and failures.
All because I belong to myself, I can really get to know yourself and thus to make friends with yourself, to love yourself and all the components of me, so I can direct all their actions in line with its interests.
I know that I do not like, also know that there is something I do not know.
But I love myself and so can safely act to change what does not suit me, and try to learn something I don't know.
I'm me no matter what I say, what I do, how I look, what I think and feel.
All this is just my, and it reflects my position at this point in time.
When I think of how I looked, talked, what they did, thought and felt, I can discard what I don't like to keep what suits me, replacing the discarded into something new, more appropriate.
I can hear and listen, speak and do.
I have all the opportunities to be close and helpful to others.
All in order to understand the world of people and things around me.
I belong to myself so I can myself create.
I am me.
With me everything is in order.

Life is not what it should be. She is who she is. The thing is, as you live it.

I want to be loved but not held.
I want to be appreciated without question.
I want to joined me, but not invaded.
I want asked, not demanded.
I want to help but don't blame the inability.
If we want it, we can meet.

The one who is loved, open for new.

Love is a feeling, and it does not obey the rules. It's either there or not.