help [Theme]

Psychologists believe that the more a child helps his family at an early age, the more likely he will grow up to be a helpful teenager for whom household responsibilities are natural and simple. The earlier children are allowed to participate in the overall work, the greater the chance that they will be inclined to provide voluntary assistance as they grow up.

... many indigenous parents are happy when a raking toddler rushes to the rescue. They are happy that the baby takes initiative, and explains his assertiveness with the desire to contribute to the life of the family. Yes, the child is too young to know how to best help. But he just needs to learn. How can you learn if you don’t try?

Children who know a lot about their family history—where their grandmother went to school, where their great-uncle grew up, how and when their parents met, and so on—are found to be more confident and resilient in general than those who who is unfamiliar with such things. Researchers suggest that helping children develop a powerful “intergenerational self” reminds them that they belong to something larger than themselves. They are not the main characters in the family story, but part of a chapter that is still being written. This is the opposite of the concept of “everyone is around me” and in this sense has a valuable decentering effect.

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There was a strict order in the war: no matter how difficult it was, the wounded were certainly carried out from under the fire. This showed concern not only for saving human life. This was the basis of the faith of those going into battle: no matter what happened to me, my comrades would not leave me. The memory of the dead, a sensitive attitude towards the war disabled - this is maintaining the same high morality.

Seeing your own is more important than being invisible. The first directive of the movement: do not abandon people.

Insomnia, now my faithful friend, comes to the rescue and leads the pen. Girlfriends are known to cheat. Oh, how I wish this one would cheat on me!

It was completely the opposite of what happened before. Before, it was necessary to figure out what to do, and the interest of the matter was always the same - Dmitry Ivanovich Nekhlyudov; and yet, despite the fact that all the interest of life was then concentrated on Dmitry Ivanovich, all these affairs were boring. Now all the cases concerned other people, and not Dmitry Ivanovich, and everyone was interesting and fascinating, and there was an abyss of these cases.

- Nothing. And I don’t like being bothered when I don’t need anything from you. Okay, okay, don't look at me like that. I'll find a job for you.

Friends are not those who cry for the dead, but (those) who help (during) life.

- Sorry, it's just me out of habit.

At these moments, do not forget about your allies who are ready to help in difficult times.

When you feel bad, find someone who is even worse and help him.

The narcissist thinks that you are manipulating him, playing with his mind. He thinks it's a game of power and mind that you've gotten yourself into. He is confused, he is disoriented. You are his mother, a maternal figure. Why are you doing this to him? So whenever you disagree with the narcissist, or criticize something, or suggest something, or give advice, or even offer help, the narcissist perceives it as shifting blame that is contrary to the facts. But there are facts in the narcissist's mind that he is innocent, he doesn't deserve what you do. Your actions border on malicious intent