self-acceptance [Theme]

- Why are you my mother?!

You know, the words “I want” are not necessarily selfishness. Sometimes this is a necessary, slightly belated stage of self-acceptance.

- Doubtful. You don't want to know all the details about yourself.

Don't try to artificially cheer yourself up when you're sad. Will not help. You will only begin to blame yourself for not getting as good as it should be. Try something else instead. Accept your feelings. Bitterness. Fear. Sadness. Just acknowledge your right to feel that way. And stop worrying about other people's opinions. Stop caring about whether someone approves of you or not. People, even those closest to you, will not live your life for you. And they can't feel for you either.

Can't say no, no, no

Personally, I've spent many years struggling with myself, trying to be someone else, fighting my nervous, excitable temperament, always getting a little angry with myself and trying to change. The turning point came when I was able to accept myself as I am.