someone else's opinion [Theme]
We are so dependent on the opinions of others that we allow the crowd to be the judge and arbiter of our behavior; we sacrifice anything to be considered “the same as everyone else.” We strive for universal recognition as a reward, we are afraid to be different from others, because this causes a reaction from society: distrust, rejection, suspicion. As a result, we inevitably become part of the homogeneous mass, and this gives us self-confidence and a feeling of acceptance and love, but at the same time we are oppressed by a feeling of loneliness, internal anxiety and lack of personal identity.
Quote Explanation: Chapter 2
Life in general is fleeting, your life is already running out, and you do not respect yourself, but make your well-being dependent on the souls of other people.
When some people blame you, or hate you, or speak ill of you, then come close to their soul, penetrate inside and see what they are like. You will see that you need not worry about what these people think of you.
The mechanism of genocide was based on this, which, having begun, only intensified over time. Unable to accept and defend their own opinion, people simply blindly followed the "correct" opinion of the majority.
Quote Explanation: Prince's conclusions on the nature of the Tutsi genocide that occurred in the Round. His conclusions are based on the results of conformity experiments (Asch experiments).
- About the ability not to depend on someone else's opinion. This is a gift.
Spit. I really don't care what these scumbags think of me.
And you outline your personal boundaries with a sea urchin, put a shell of personal opinion to your ear and listen to yourself, and all those who are against go to ... worse ... dozhestvennye fees stupid, but loud seagulls.
Don't try to artificially cheer yourself up when you're sad. Will not help. You will only begin to blame yourself for not getting as good as it should be. Try something else instead. Accept your feelings. Bitterness. Fear. Sadness. Just acknowledge your right to feel that way. And stop worrying about other people's opinions. Stop caring about whether someone approves of you or not. People, even those closest to you, will not live your life for you. And they can't feel for you either.
Do you think people who write about paintings understand them? I'm revealing a secret to you: you can't write about paintings at all. Just like art in general. They write only for one purpose - to enlighten the ignorant. You can't write about art. It can only be felt.
But he stubbornly believed that he would find peace in her eyes.
- And I have seen such ...
Of course, listening to other people's comments is unpleasant. But it is often helpful to get an outside opinion. It's hard to change without constructive criticism.
I think you will help closed ears? Not in your head, you idiot.
It is always difficult to question their own desires and beliefs, especially at the right time, but good someone else's opinion may be useful. We involuntarily expect from friends and colleagues evaluation of our decisions and therefore the quality and content of the expected estimations is important. The need reasonably to gossip is a powerful stimulus for serious self-criticism, even more powerful than this for your New year promises to make more informed decisions at work and at home.
Sad were our meetings:
His smile, wonderful view,
His stinging speech
They poured into the soul frigid poison.
Inexhaustible slander
He tempted Providence;
He called a beautiful dream;
He despised the inspiration;
Neither did he believe love and freedom;
To life mockingly looked -
And nothing in all of nature
Bless he didn't want.
His smile, wonderful view,
His stinging speech
They poured into the soul frigid poison.
Inexhaustible slander
He tempted Providence;
He called a beautiful dream;
He despised the inspiration;
Neither did he believe love and freedom;
To life mockingly looked -
And nothing in all of nature
Bless he didn't want.
