personal life [Theme]

- We're all too good for this bullshit, and we all have our own history.

I want to share with you something that has helped me manage my personal life and career over the years. It is simple, but at the same time very difficult. That word, just one word - no. It helps you get out of one chapter and makes you believe that many exciting chapters await in the future.

- Doubtful. You don't want to know all the details about yourself.

All production, social work, self-education... No personal life!

- While in a hare state.

- Yes, and I'm also a scarecrow, some feathers and bulging eyes, and pulls me to the bastards. And they won’t marry me, because my chest is sunken.

- Yes, that is, until you get fat.

At the cemetery, fences near the graves are not just installed. This is a stop sign, you cannot cross them. Trample flowers and earth, under which the remains are not. Every living person must also have an invisible fence. Personal boundaries. Inside this fenced-in perimeter, it's just me. Outside it are family, children, men, friends, colleagues and everyone else. So, my flowers cannot be trampled either. Climbing over the fence is prohibited. No one has the right to advise me how to live, how to behave, what job to choose, whom to love, how to paint and dress, how to feed a cat, if I did not ask this opinion myself. No one has the right to touch me without my desire. Even take the hand. If a woman says "no", men for some reason often look for a double meaning, thinking that she "breaks down" and builds her own worth. “No” only means “no.” Around my inner world there is not just a fence, but also barbed wire, and machine gunners on the towers. One extra word - and a person at gunpoint, a repeat offender will be shot on the spot.

I do not like more and more that in our unceremonious age, private life shrinks like shagreen skin. Social networks, the Internet, cameras on the street, in the entrances, controlling every step. And it doesn't matter if you are an ordinary person or more or less famous.

- I'm an actress. I don't want to play myself. You promised me a great role.
- And you got it.
- Nope. I got a caricature of my life, everyone on display. Divorce and the man who beats me? Am I going to drive Langland crazy and he's suffering from it? Do you think people don't think Langland is you and I'm kind of ruining my life? This is my life, Arthur! And I have the right to defend it!
- Viewers...
- Have the right to spectacle. And that's it! I did not expect such meanness from my own husband. This scenario, it's about people who don't have a future. I have a future...

You know... I am ready to smile every day just to make today better than yesterday.

And we don’t believe in long-forgotten fairy tales.

Life is such a complicated thing. So thank goodness we're thinking about it. Life turned here, turned there. It cannot be calculated logically, to give a ready answer.

Don't lie to your wives. Yes, you shouldn't tell everything about your work, but in your personal life, be honest and speak the truth.