Book: Wont be happy

Habits can be controlled. Any habit you can instill any habit can be eliminated.

If you take a family of employees in their current social position is fixed even at the level of vocabulary, all spoken in the passive voice or the third person: "we said", "if I let you go Director", “if allowed”, "if the order would be - do it." The child in such a family when I grow up, also looking for a job and waiting for instructions what to do. And this is considered normal and even common.

If a person becomes the path of self-development, it means that he is now responsible for what he is and his fate.

On a similar principle are acquired habits, not worth it to chase the result, it is important to shake the habit. Decided to start Jogging in the morning, run for 5 minutes a day, a month - 10 minutes. It is important to introduce a new habit into your life systematically and on the rise trajectory.

It is important to do what you love, to live with someone you love and that the deeds, words and thoughts came to love.

Stick to certain rules of communication and behavior: do not engage in unpleasant conversations, do not argue, do not succumb to provocations, do not contact with Hammami, do not try someone to change, but if you really want something to show by example, don't worry about things you do not control and are not dependent on you.

Personal development - the secret revolutionary doctrine, organizing a rebellion against the existing order of things in your own life that you dislike, otherwise you would not attempt to do things differently in your life, as you truly dream of.

It is very important to cultivate the ability to remain calm in any situation that will allow you to observe the world as it is. Serenity is as a link between the basic principles of self-development. It's like cement between the bricks, if it is not, everything crumbles, even if you have the best bricks.

Most destructive habit of almost every person is cluttering my life with unnecessary things, thoughts, actions, and relationships.