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Before Pat on the shoulder, one must first reach it.

- When I stop looking for her approval? Every time in her company, I turn into a whining eight year old boy.
- You still are, but it is not close.
- If to speak with more sympathy than Sheldon... the need for parental approval is inscribed in our biology.

Lenny don't need help, they need me to approve his errors. This is what sons want from their fathers

They were careful to exhibit only behaviour
Which had been approved by their peer group.
They tried to show only those manners,
Which were approved by their peers.


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I ain't got no dollar signs in my eyes
That might be a surprise but it's true
I'm not like you
And I don't want your advice or your praise
Or to move in the ways you do
And I never will.
I have not lit dollar signs in the eyes -
It may be, you'll be surprised
But I'm not like you.
And I don't need advice or approval.
I don't want to live like you
And I never will.

We all want more and expect the approval of others - and these desires can never be fully satisfied.

People applauded stagnation, and those who are ahead of their time not applauding. So it's not about me.

Have you noticed how often we look for approval in their actions by other people. We are social creatures and get rid of almost impossible, unless, of course, to get rid of all men: Imagine a World without Men. No offense. No drugs. And lots of happy, fat, and made up of women.

Indeed, many of my male colleagues are considerate, attentive and understand what problems women face in relationships. I will always remember one group, which we conducted together with a young psychiatrist. One woman was very embarrassed about the problems in her ten-year marriage. She told about several instances when her husband showed incredible cruelty and had a psychological violence, and then asked why she's not okay. And my colleague replied:
"Emotional beat with a refined cruelty every day. Here nothing to talk about. It's not a question of looks or gender policy. You experience violence every day. You're all fine, except for the fact that you still have not learned to protect themselves."
Since this woman took over so many negative views from her own husband, for it was extremely important to get approval from other men. I saw the look of relief and gratitude on her face. She really felt that she was heard, for perhaps the first time in many years.

Any well educated woman does not want to stand out. To escape, to adapt, to merge with others - that's the motto, which is often written on the flag “a well-mannered woman.” It seems that after becoming invisible, it will achieve its goals faster and more successful.
And being invisible and obedient girl (which, in fact, sought from her childhood), she was terribly surprised that none of it is not praise and does not endorse...

Will never understand how much you want approval from the parents, until it's gone.

- I was hanging out with the guys, they are half human-palubicki...
- Began...
But then, to pass the test, they were told to do one bad thing... and I refused.
- Acted like a real man. Well done.
- Huh?
- You did the right thing, although everyone was against it. It's a man thing. In my opinion.

... I, like most writers, with an amusing contradiction was looking at the audience, as "donkeys", and at the same time, nothing I desire so, as praise and approval most of these "donkeys"!

Approval from the other needs most people who don't trust your own judgment.