Book: Gentlemen are not born! Or the secrets of raising boys

Talent cannot be nurtured under duress, for this you need a spark of God, love for what you do, and hard work.

Remember: comparisons are the best way to foster envy or hatred, as well as develop an inferiority complex in a child.

In fact, children forgive us a lot, much more than we deserve it.

But for a real, fulfilling life, a child needs care, attention, a warm and kind attitude, understanding and acceptance. Without this, any child will wither like a flower without water.

If you don't set the rules of the game, life will. And much tougher.

Fear does not add obedience. Fear breeds caution, and hysteria means uncontrollability.

Nature is wise and therefore gives a child of any gender two parents in order to balance, balance the masculine and feminine in him.

It is the man who, as a rule, can give the child the experience of educating the will and spirit (while the mother is often a greater specialist in educating the senses).

Don't be an anchor to a child if you can be a sail.

It's great when women have the right to education, to manifest themselves in the public and political life of society, to professional realization. This is certainly a huge progress of mankind. It is bad that these rights have been obtained and used not only for the benefit of women, but also to spite men.

On the other hand, we expect a man to be gentle and courteous with us, to look after us beautifully, to fulfill our whims, to care, cherish and cherish. But how is all this possible in relation to a creature that radiates danger?!

The “grinding” of men is the other side of the feminist victory, the inevitable price for it.

Modern men have a rare chance to prove their masculinity by education, and not just by birth status; brains, and not just the size of the wallet or individual organs; tolerance, not aggression; kindness and compassion, and not a craving for destruction.

A real man will not create difficulties out of the blue, in order to heroically overcome them later. He is wise and far-sighted, and this is more important than brute strength and pressure of energy.