Author of quotes: Robin Norwood

In life there are no mistakes, only lessons, so get out of his hole to learn the lessons he wants to teach you life.

Ruling over what is going on around her, she tries to provide a sense of security. No shocks, no surprises, no feelings.

Back on the plane home, I kept thinking: what would I like to hear at my funeral? It helped me understand what to do next.

We both acted like it was her project, her responsibility to make me feel better.

If hard to pretend to be an adult, you can forget that you're the frightened girl.

Hearing the words of this woman, I said aloud: "don't you deserve the best, than the worst of what you can make?" and suddenly heard himself and sobbed aloud because I realized it applies to me.

Hearing the words of this woman, I said aloud: "don't you deserve the best, than the worst of what you can make?" and suddenly heard himself and sobbed aloud because I realized it applies to me.

When children see that their parents fully enjoy life, they are getting symbolic permission to do the same. And Vice versa: when parents suffer, it signals to children that life is suffering.

To know is one thing, but to openly admit - is quite another. It would be a violation of the unwritten marital contract: what we don't say aloud, doesn't exist in our family, and therefore it cannot bring us pain.

When to seek help people who grew up in unhappy families, or people who are now living in a tense relationship, this should be seen as an attempt to gain control.

"You need me?" - secretly asks the woman who loves to madness.
"If you awaken to take care of me and solve all my problems?" - silently asks the man who is going to make her his partner.

For addiction we pay in fear. ... For a stable relationship, we are paying the boredom.

Eros: true love is an overwhelming feeling of desperate exhaustion for a loved one, which we perceive are not like us, mysterious, elusive. The depth of love is measured by how intense the obsession with the loved one. I love there is little time for other interests and objectives, since all the energy is focused on memories of previous encounters and dreams about future visits with loved ones. Often the lovers have to overcome many obstacles on the path to happiness, and suffering becomes an integral element of true love.
Agape: true love is a partnership in which two lovers are sincerely devoted to each other. Lovers share many values, purposes, interests and with great tolerance refer to individual differences of a loved one. The depth of love is measured by trust and respect.

We use our mad obsession with a loved one in order to avoid suffering, emptiness, anger and fear. We are using relationships like a drug, trying to avoid those feelings, how would you have felt alone. What hurts more getting intercourse with a man, the more it distracts us from reality.