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I've found it's easy to go all-in on things you can dictate and control. But when little is up to you and you have no idea where life will take you, it becomes difficult and scary to do this. But what if it is in those areas where there is no control that real life begins?

Narcissists are masters at creating false accusations in order to seize emotional control over their victims. Through a relentless bombardment of guilt and nit-picking, they lure their victims into a subservient position, submitting to the will of the narcissist.

The main thing is not control over the situation, but the ability to adequately respond to success or failure.

Our animal cousins give us a hint, more specifically how they use tough brawling games. Brawling consists of the wallowing, wrestling, biting and pinching that we see in animals, from mice and puppies to humans. The first interpretations of such a game emphasized its value as a teaching tool. This is a game battle model, a kind of preparation for real battles. Today's interpretations of game fights put the concept of relationship learning at the forefront. These theories highlight the idea that through brawling, animals learn to flexibly adapt to unpredictable social conditions, to accept a change in social roles. In role reversal, stress and fear are brought under control in safe situations. In addition, social roles are strung on an axis of social dominance. In brawling play, cubs learn to assume both a subordinate and a dominant position. It is this last element that I consider the most essential for understanding the connection between risky play and fear. There seems to be something very important about our relationship to submission - perhaps so important that this behavior (the play of dominance and submission) is built into the DNA of mammals, including us. As we shall see, the fear of alien domination is so terrible for an individual of our species that we are ready to do anything to avoid it.

In the hidden hope of his Humanity.

He diligently wrote down everything I said on his smartphone, as if he had all these long terms at hand: occlusal

Don't let the enemies!

People who can't control their emotions are easy to control themselves.

and to forgive you need to be chosen

Marketers know when to attack the brain when our emotional control is weak.

The ordinary person has no choice but to imitate famous people and repeat them like parrots. In science, this is called "total control of the environment."

Nothing can quench my thirst for violence!

Give a bastard control of Heaven and he still can't do a damn thing except another Hell.

- My autoscorers collected all the damn