Character: Psychologist

we retreat, and continue to move forward with even greater speed. We build our lives in the place where others crashed against the wall. The closer we ourselves are to this wall, the more we hope to pass through it. The closer it is, the more stubborn we believe that the most incredible solutions will come and miraculously save the situation, while those who are watching us from the outside are waiting for ... a blow. "

- Where did you get the idea that I needed help not to get involved in conflicts? Only weaklings believe in harmony. And as a consequence - walk around and around, mumble something under their noses and feel their moral superiority, while we, normal people, are busy with others.
- What?
- We are winning.
- Is this important? - My dear, if you don't win, you won't achieve anything. There are no random people in the government and the board of directors. The psychologist tried to return to her question:
- And... winners make a lot of money, this is also important, did I understand you correctly? What do you spend them on? I buy a distance that separates me from other people. The psychologist has never heard such an answer.
- What do you mean?
- In expensive restaurants, there is more distance between tables. In business class, there are no seats in the middle row. In exclusive hotels there is a separate entrance for VIPs. In densely populated cities, distance is the most expensive.

- Of course. If you like it better.

A panic attack is a heartache that becomes so severe that it gets a bodily expression. The fear is so acute that the brain ... how would you explain it, the channel lacks bandwidth... to process all information. And the firewall, so to speak, falls.

- When you understand that someone can give her more, but you cannot give more.

The psychologist is more the lawyer, not the devil's advocate. To understand does not mean to forgive. To understand is to characterize the hidden movement of thoughts so as not to have any desire to throw a stone.
Try to be in one spirit with those who did not throw a vicious woman stone. He just said quietly: "If there's anyone of you is without sin, throw a stone at her". It was a long time ago - so long ago, when people had a conscience. For a moment they looked into themselves and they became ashamed. They dropped stones on the ground and left. And she left. The woman approached the man and asked:
And you don't judge me?
"No," he said. - Don't judge. Go and sin no more.



Explanation of the quote:

from the novel "Psychologist and a psychopath".
Reflections of a psychologist.

The second half of the night. The stars hanging over the rooftops like ripe apples. Seems to stretch out a hand and pluck one or two. The stars are large and cool. Silent. Not live some. They are not neglecting me.
Can't sleep. And when you can't sleep, I was plagued by thoughts are various. Better they go somewhere else to send. I mean to put together and send in a creative flight. Or a crusade for a certain idea. Psychological idea, because my education is sometimes oppresses me, oppresses like the flesh of monks-hermits. The idea should be implemented, otherwise it will want to get drunk, and then another and another. And we have to live with me. Where are these to find? From removing it? From the dullness of monotonous routine? Do not go out. The square root of zero is zero. The square root of the unit will unit. Require a different coordinate system. Is Not Euclidean. What to extract meaning? Probably from the fact that a better. Say I had a good psychologist - psychology is not yet started cramping. That is, has ceased to have meaning. One doesn't make sense. And I can't live without acute experience of life. If in my life a long time do not come to the senses, I start to rebel noble...



Explanation of the quote:

from the novel "Psychologist and a psychopath".
Philosophical reflections.

And even if you're a poet, look often at the night stars. If you're not a poet, still get out on the balcony and watch. Maybe ever notice how one of the stars winked at you. And invited into the flight. Here you can open up to the true moments of life. Don't miss a moment.
But if you don't have a balcony, and you're not a poet, and your head rarely turns to the stars, then go and look at his feet - and there you can see reflected in the puddle star. Well, like wink?



Explanation of the quote:

From the novel "Psychologist and a psychopath".
Thinking about the stars

We don't always win and not always lose, we learn to play.

If they ask me, "Why are all men?" I answer: "Why all the men you choose are?" Freud wrote about the "obsessive repetition". This is the scheme according to which man constantly plays the same sexual psychodrama with different people on the same unchanging roles. Subconsciously or even consciously he is trying to rewrite the ending, to fix something that previously went wrong. However, the same mistakes and flaws that he brings to the relationship, with the inevitability of their ruin, the same as before.

You need to concentrate more on themselves and less on the environment... Here's a task. Every morning you have three minutes to give the choice of linen. A few days increase the time to five minutes. Try on, take off, look at yourself in the mirror, do what you want, but five minutes choose your underwear... When you learn to spend on lingerie ten minutes, all the other problems will seem insignificant.

The world would be gray, sad and gloomy without your quail in truffle sauce.

Remember I said to save the marriage? It does not concern you.

- So, what can be useful?
- The fact that my mother's obsession to marry me off.
- The fact that my daughter has a thing: she thinks I have a thing.
- The fact that they brought me here, and how to return home, I can't remember.