boys [Theme] Page 2

betrayed and so on.

The magazines taught us that before you were noticed, life was just a waiting room ... And while I got used to it and waited, the boys spent this time to grow into themselves.

- Oh my God. My mother warned me that this happens to pretty boys in the big city.

“Isn't it sad that girls are much more ashamed of their bodies than boys? Don said. I agreed: it's sad.

There are two things that turn a boy into a man. The first is the love of a woman. The second is the hatred of the other man.

- Is it really a billion euros? [the helicopter with the Karpovs takes off, the others are watching their departure]

My son doesn't believe stubbornly,
Does not believe in war,
He says to me, "What are you, Mom!
War happens in the old days,
Now that doesn't happen!"
And explains why:
"In war, because boys play,
And adults do not need it.
You have a lot of serious things to do.
Why do you need children's play?"
He's right, my son. And that's for adults.
It's time to understand long ago.

Sweat and work, work and sweat,
some children will be pulled out and stretched out,
boys - accountants, girls - assistants,
those and those
will sweat like these sweaters.

<...> At 15, I noticed that my girlfriends stopped playing sports because they didn't want to "look like a man." At the age of 18, I realized that many boys are embarrassed to express their feelings.


Quote in English

Many of us put too much responsibility on teenagers because that's the way society does. We usually worry more about teenage girls than boys. A boy cannot get pregnant, he is not raped like a girl, and therefore a boy is given more freedom. They are allowed to come home later (if at all the time of arrival is stipulated). We think that boys look strong, responsible and resilient, and we treat them as if they really have all these qualities.
However, letting go of your son properly and in a timely manner does not mean "letting go of the rock" and allowing him to do whatever he wants , simply because he is a boy and can, as you think, cope with responsibility. Unfortunately, I see too often how well-intentioned moms trust their sons simply because they're the "good guys." We forget that our "good boy" has a couple of "bad" buddies. And bad influence inevitably changes the life of a good boy.

The mother acts cruelly if she does not pay attention to the boy's tears (at any age), does not help him deal with his feelings, or does not calm him down when it is really necessary.

Finally, both of you will become more emotionally balanced if you keep this distance.

Do not scold him for mistakes, you better laugh. Then the boy will be calmer to perceive his own failures.

Responsibility is at the heart of the boy-man transformation process.