self-esteem [Theme] Page 1

Self-respect and vanity are incompatible.

Resentment comes from self-respect.

- I also tried for a long time to prove to my parents that I was worth something. But then I realized that the main thing is what you think about yourself, and not others. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. You will understand everything. I believe in you.

For the world to treat you well, you need to treat yourself well.

The only way to teach self-respect and respect for others is to respect the world of the child, listen to him and notice any experiences, difficulties or problems that he considers important.

Education is about raising children who see themselves and others as icons of Christ. This is true self-respect.

The desire to control everything in order to avoid mistakes often leads to the fact that when control over circumstances is lost, a person begins to lose self-esteem.

Is respect the price of three hundred rubles? No, you're kidding. Maybe there is no such money in the world at all.

It is not easy to remain yourself in this punitive system, to maintain self-respect, especially in dealing with people, and if it works out - and you do not change yourself, adapting to others, they recognize you as a person and begin to respect you. The crowd tires people who strive to be themselves, it tires the need to maintain an effort of will. Therefore, the desire to be alone does not leave, it is easier to be yourself. Situations in which we are forced to change ourselves constantly arise in prison. Such a life in conditions of constant stress either tempers and makes stronger, or breaks. It all depends on the amount of love in the soul of the person behind the barbed wire. Love heals from the most dangerous disease of the personality - fear; be yourself in any life situation.

Shame is inherent in people who have self-respect.

“You've bullied me for years, Adam. I have lived in anxiety for many years. You made me feel bad about myself. Now I have to believe that you've changed? I am ashamed to remember this and I do not want a repetition. I had to try hard to regain my self-esteem, and I don't want to hide.

Maybe I will die alone, maybe no one will ever figure out what is hidden in the depths of these eyes, but I will be true to myself and from this happy. After all, respecting yourself, accepting, appreciating, loving and never selling your soul - isn't that the most important thing?

Self-esteem, self-esteem... Whatever a person covers his actions, no matter how he justifies himself or praises himself, deep down everyone understands everything about himself: when he is on top, and when he floulouses below.

There are positively Russian people who are afraid even of Russian successes and Russian victories. They are not afraid because they wish the Russians harm, on the contrary - they grieve over any Russian failure sincerely, they are good Russians, but they are afraid of both the successes and the victories of the Russians - “because, they say, after a victorious war, self-confidence, self-praise, chauvinism will appear. , stagnation. " But the whole mistake of these good people is that they have always seen Russian progress solely in self-spitting. Yes, arrogance, perhaps, is what we need most of all now! Finally, we need self-respect, not self-spitting. Don't worry: there will be no stagnation. War will illuminate so much of the new and force so much to change the old that you would never have achieved that self-spitting and teasing, which have recently turned into mere fun.