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Systems theory teaches us that any system tends to sustain itself. This is the law of homeostasis. In every system – in the family, the married couple and many other relationships – differences and disagreements inspire fear, as there is a risk that they will compromise the system or destabilize it. Embraced by fear, we often tend to try to urgently restore unanimity, either through control or through submission. Often, in order to regain family, marital or other mutual influence, that is, the stability of our system, we impose our decisions, forcing everyone to agree, or immediately, without discussing, subdue, which leads to flight or aggression. There is no rapprochement.
But conflict can contribute to development. It provides an opportunity to strengthen our sense of security, autonomy and ability to listen and empathize. It encourages us to contact with ourselves and with others, that is, to develop both inner firmness and flexibility. It is an occasion for joint growth and awakens creative forces.
№ 411147   Added MegaMozg 10-01-2021 / 19:30
Men love with their eyes. To turn a man's head, you first need to get his attention. By the way, crying is best in red, it has a greater impact on the emotions of others, and also makes them sympathize with you.
№ 410893   Added MegaMozg 08-01-2021 / 03:24
Nobody is born bad, others make him bad. But there is always a chance to improve. Don't forget this simple truth.
№ 410400   Added MegaMozg 29-12-2020 / 23:36
If philosophy is understood as the quest for knowledge in its most general and broadest form, then it can obviously be considered the mother of all scientific quest. But it is also true that various branches of science, and in turn, have a strong influence on those scientists who deal with them, and, moreover, strongly influence the philosophical thinking of each generation.
№ 409411   Added MegaMozg 15-12-2020 / 19:15
Realism and sobriety of self-assessments, courage to distinguish the negative in us, the ability not to turn a blind eye to the dark areas of the inner world of a person help to improve and avoid breakdowns, obstacles and failures on the way to truth, goodness, justice and beauty. Knowing our negative, even potentially, qualities, their identification in the light of humane reason allows us to weaken the power and influence of this sphere of the human being, one way or another to neutralize or weaken the possible influence of the "demons" of evil on us.
№ 407595   Added MegaMozg 27-11-2020 / 20:06
Unfortunately, people make a choice in favor of shouting patriotism, and the real influence is that which is imperceptible, gradually and expressed in creation.
№ 406542   Added MegaMozg 07-11-2020 / 15:57
It is not enough to find a personal motive, it is still necessary to use it competently.
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№ 406501   Added petrashevgant 06-11-2020 / 12:01
Many of us put too much responsibility on teenagers because that's the way society does. We usually worry more about teenage girls than boys. A boy cannot get pregnant, he is not raped like a girl, and therefore a boy is given more freedom. They are allowed to come home later (if at all the time of arrival is stipulated). We think that boys look strong, responsible and resilient, and we treat them as if they really have all these qualities.
However, letting go of your son properly and in a timely manner does not mean "letting go of the rock" and allowing him to do whatever he wants , simply because he is a boy and can, as you think, cope with responsibility. Unfortunately, I see too often how well-intentioned moms trust their sons simply because they're the "good guys." We forget that our "good boy" has a couple of "bad" buddies. And bad influence inevitably changes the life of a good boy.
№ 405572   Added MegaMozg 18-10-2020 / 18:42
There are many studies that support the devastating effects of violent games or movies on boys. It is known that boys, who constantly see violence on the screens, become more and more aggressive.
№ 405164   Added MegaMozg 09-10-2020 / 14:12
The main and most compelling objection to excessive skepticism is that it cannot be of long-term benefit as long as it retains all its strength and power. One has only to ask such a skeptic what he actually wants and what he achieves through all this curious research, and he will immediately get lost and will not know what to answer. Followers of Copernicus or Ptolemy, advocating two different systems of astronomy, may hope to lead their listeners to some kind of permanent and enduring conviction. The Stoic or Epicurean lays out principles that not only can be sustainable, but also influence the behavior and way of life of people. The adherent of Pyrrhonism cannot hope that his philosophy will have a permanent influence on the mind, or, if this influence is carried out, the latter will be beneficial to society. On the contrary, he must admit, if he is willing to admit anything at all, that the whole structure of human life would have to undergo destruction if its principles were to gain universal and lasting domination. All conversations, all activities would immediately cease, and people would be in complete lethargy until their miserable existence came to an end due to the dissatisfaction of natural needs. True, such a fatal end can hardly be feared, for nature is always much stronger than principles.
№ 405049   Added MegaMozg 06-10-2020 / 21:24
There is another condition, I replied, that you seem to have overlooked. Even if I agreed with your premises, I would have to deny your conclusions. You conclude that religious doctrines and reasoning cannot have an impact on life because they should not, you conclude, not paying attention to the fact that people do not reason like you, but draw many conclusions from the belief in the existence of the Deity and assume that God will impose other punishments on vice and give other rewards of virtue than those, which appear in the normal course of nature. It is not whether this conclusion is true or not: its influence on their lives and behavior remains the same in both cases, and those who seek to deprive people of faith in such prejudices may perhaps be sound thinkers, but I do not agree to recognize them as good citizens and politicians, because they free people from the bridle that restrains their passion. and thus make the violation of social laws in some respects an easier and safer affair.
№ 404700   Added MegaMozg 29-09-2020 / 22:51
"The example of each person affects the others" (Marchal).
Quote Explanation: "The example of each person affects the others" (Marchal).
№ 402416   Added Zeus 14-08-2020 / 12:59
The meaning of murder to demonstrate his power, influence. Works like a complex little man - he's trying to compensate for injuries that poison his life every day. Don't forget the fuses in the bottom of the hierarchy.
№ 402225   Added MegaMozg 09-08-2020 / 14:00
The influence of good women - a great power after the mercy of God, who creates good men.
№ 400483   Added MegaMozg 15-07-2020 / 13:54
Grant threat. He is the worst of all dangers - it is powerful, rich, amoral and frighteningly insecure.
№ 399590   Added MegaMozg 01-07-2020 / 03:33