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A weak man throughout his life expect various challenges: poverty, humiliation, pressure and oppression from the society in which he will have to live with. Often this is because a weak man it's hard to fight for his prosperous life, he can't stand up for themselves, whereas strong person can achieve great heights in their careers, society, to live in prosperity, respect and to be free for the rest of his life.

How often we don't value our time, spending it pointless and don't even realize it. We spend a lot of time on social networks, watching stupid shows and series on TV and the like. Time is our most precious resource and irreplaceable. Success in life achieve only those people who know how to spend your time on the right things, because they realize that it cannot be bought for any money, as they were not. Everyone needs to remember that. No wonder there is a saying that the most valuable gift you can give to someone is your time because you're giving away what can never return.
© Aidar Zamaldinov

From the first days of attending school people will face the fact that all and will always appreciate it. And the first two strongly hits the child's self-esteem, which may subsequently come to terms with the fact that he is no good. But not always the rating of the institution rightly characterizes the personality. The numbers that measure students form a perception of itself in the outside world and society's attitude to everyone. Although excellent, only one who has learned to cater to the generally accepted rules. And the typical losers - free thinking that is not dependent on the opinion of others people. So we come to the conclusion that it is impossible to judge the child by how he learns at school. Similarly, it is impossible to judge an adult for the estimates, which are in his passport. In life many examples of what an excellent study and real success is entirely different things. Only the man himself knows what he's capable of, and nobody has the right to restrict its development, to drive in a certain frame and to hang labels on it. Fortune favors the bold!

There are two reasons for harassment of a person in the team. One of them is the apathy and indifference of those who occupy leadership positions. We are talking about teachers in schools, heads of companies and so on. The second reason is the inability of the weak to protect themselves, and also in the error which he commits, comes into opposition to all the staff, while the need to confront the leader. Way out also two. The first is to learn to defend themselves and their interests, the second to quit the band, and if necessary to change the city. Anyway, if there is a situation in which there is bullying, do not need to wait for more serious consequences, you should try to solve the problem. Do not expect fights, should not tolerate psychological violence, because one life and need to enjoy it, not to survive. To enjoy it means to enjoy life, not causing harm to others and no cheating.

Everyone wants to win and receive in life as much as possible. Just for this some people use uncivilized means: theft, extortion or murder. And what if to try to find more civilized ways to negotiate? Utopian world for the coveted equality and fraternity? But because everyone in this world have not so much, and if we were able to tolerate and negotiate, perhaps, a shared resource of the Earth would be enough to all equally. Unfortunately, the opposition to this principle of common justice more than favored. So we remain angry and deprived. But we are all essentially the same, only for someone to desire power and money outweighs friendship, love, respect. Perhaps humanity is to have a whole school that will teach "what is good and what is bad." Maybe then people will be interested to find compromises and not to wrest from others?

Comparing today with the days of the past, sometimes you can come to the horror of the abyss that divides people, raised and educated a few decades ago with those growing in today's reality. Young people are flooded with gadgets, Internet and social networking. The possibility to invent a storefront with which to sell to the rich and unscrupulous uncle, was the meaning of life for modern girls. They no longer read books. Instead of caring about their own education stars of instagram is keen on scenery for the photos. Pretend to be successful and enterprising, correct folding of the sponge. But in real life unlikely to be able to distinguish Strauss from Strauss. Caring for cheap bright wrapper left no room for self-development and achievement of real goals in life.

Often in school is found disrespectful, and sometimes even boorish attitude to us from classmates and teachers. In children, there is a feeling of injustice and brutality around the world. If everyone ganged up against him. But is it really so harmful and wrong? Passing through various difficulties in childhood, we gain strength and experience, and further perceived adult problems easier. In today's world many people want to achieve heights in life, from all sides we are surrounded by huge competition and a fierce struggle. Weak and spineless people can not cope with all this pressure. Only with determination and strength of character, you will be able to live the life you truly dream of. Alma mater not only helps us to gain knowledge of the various Sciences, but also teaches communication and conflict resolution. If from an early age there was only peace and idyll, people not hardened and would not have been able to withstand all future attacks of fate.

Often decent people, getting into bad company, is changing dramatically under the pressure of it. Where core values are cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, gambling, dissolute life, as a rule, is inevitable and crime. True friendship in such companies does not exist: yesterday's "friends" tomorrow you shamelessly betray, if it will be beneficial to them. After all, the conscience in such circumstances, atrophies. To gamble with a very dangerous trick they put to sleep the vigilance, giving a person a couple of times to win, and then he himself does not notice how to stay in front of them a huge debt. And they will threaten, harass and even beat the debtor until he give them the money, even at the cost of their own property. We should therefore be very carefully and cautiously to shape your social circle without having to deal with bad companies.

They say that when phone was on a leash, the showers were free. And it's true. Today you can hide behind messenger and social network accounts: don't reply, ignore or even leave nasty comments. The anonymity of the Internet hides the true nature of man. Posts, likes, surfing the Internet has replaced the usual live chat. If you're a big company, people would periodically "stick” to the phone as if nothing happened. And after all, there flows the life, time is running out. In order to tell the most important words to each other, we are left with the crumbs of time. And their we spend on stupid TV shows, stupid talk show, pointless arguments with invisible opponents. People with connections manage to fight forever, to draw conclusions, to erase from life. But online communication transmits only 30% of what I wanted to tell your partner. Leave home, from the Internet, from the shadows. Live life to the full and all five senses.

We are necessary to nobody, except our parents in life. Sad, but true, and she rarely has exceptions. If tomorrow, for example, something happens and you are forced to constantly be in bed, only the mother or the father will take care of you. Despite the fact that the relationship is not completely wrong or for some reason the contact is interrupted, the parents will give everything to keep you alive and healthy. Sometimes, friendship is broken on the real problems to solve that are unlikely to succeed alone in the kitchen, talking. While people strong, healthy and can take care of themselves, they are interested in each other. But as soon as someone becomes much weaker or even is bedridden, even the closest friends lost. Many are unhappy with their parents, because they allegedly did something wrong. Somewhere I heard, somewhere did not want to understand where something wrong happened. But no one taught it to, as you no guide. We all make mistakes, but in the end the face of the most difficult challenges stay with their families. Call your parents!

We should not delude ourselves about the fact that your future is somebody worried about in life. No one will care about your admission in the right institution, and then on your device for a good job where you could earn decent money. No one cares about any income of your family, nor your health, nor your dreams and plans. Only by close relatives, primarily parents, worried about your future and strive to provide the opportunity to receive a decent education, so that later you have a good job. When you become an adult and independent, remember that parents are not only fed, clothed you, not sparing forces and energy, but tried to give you everything. The main thing that you should be grateful to them for forgiveness and support, for warmth, comfort of the parental home, for love and understanding, that tried to make you a real man.

Beautiful people everything is easier in life. Cute students often become the object of teachers ' sympathy. Ugly, but intelligent, knowledgeable on a solid top five, it remains only to accept the fact that choosing a favorite teacher will supply only four. All five a long time laid up for a beautiful and self-confident, but not knowledgeable of the subject five. They are attractive, parents took care of style and a great vacation, and to complete the image lacks only a gold medal. After all, many educators are looking for the ideal student posters: widely cute smiling student with unconditional thirst for knowledge. And the fact that the mind is not enough, so it is fixable. Such children feel good teachers, to show them sympathy, and use it. Instead of sleepless nights over textbooks - timed smile, instead of a deserved victory at the Olympics - the "dogovornjakah". Many modern students know: no need to cram - you have to like it, and then great grades will come by themselves.