reality [Theme] Page 1

A person does not have strong moral foundations; his behavior is subordinated to selfish interests, passionate desires and momentary illusory good. In search of happiness and goodness, he takes the apparent for reality and too often goes astray, falling into sin and corruption. Neither religious nor moral censures are able to restrain him. This happens because no one really understands what is good and what is bad, what is fair and what is not.

Addiction is a fantasy.

Fantasy protection is protection from bad things.

Everything I imagine becomes reality.

Once you relax, the harsh reality immediately tries to knock out your teeth.

At that moment, when you are completely exhausted, and the heaviness falls into every cell of your mind and body, like sticky cotton candy, at that moment you can try to retire, just close your eyes and imagine your home. Your inner home. At first you will see a lot of people and a lot of fuss around, leave only the most dear ones, look each of them in the eyes and go beyond the space. And now you can safely imagine what you see around you: meadows or fields, or maybe it will be a damp dark forest. Choose yours, what is close and responds, feel the mood of the weather, feel the wind, aromas, sounds and continue walking, acutely absorbing everything. You will see a house ahead. Imagine what it will be like, what the doors and windows will be like. And what color are they? Touch and feel the structure with your hand, open the doors and go inside. Now slowly begin to explore everything that you see there, what is truly yours, and what is it like, how many rooms are there, is there furniture there, and what objects are in it, how the rays of light fall, are there aromas, are there sounds heard, what is the house filled with , what is in plain sight and what is hidden from view. Walk slowly, slowly, through the entire space, merge with it, remember yourself as a little person, remember what you dreamed about, what stories you were replaying in your head, whether there is anything left from your wonderful childhood. Fill your home with what you need, remove everything unnecessary. Stay in this state, feel the sun breaking through the windows, the warmth of the walls, that coziness, peace and quiet that you need, remember this, breathe in, fill up and you can slowly return to reality. And this will be a completely different reality...

Reality is often disappointing.

People look at you the same way they look at the Internet or television. You are entertainment for the vast majority of people. And they are stupid as night, and are unable to distinguish reality from fantasy, reality from delusion, reality from delusion, or reality from conspiracies.

So, in the narcissistic mind, he abandons you as an object of persecution. Little by little you become enemy number one, two and three. He needs you to become an enemy. Because he must give up on you.

Don't think that by caring for a narcissist, by sharing something with a narcissist, you can somehow change their thinking or state of mind. You can not. Because this isn't about you. We are talking about the inner world inhabited by avatars. This is a paracosm, an alternate reality in which a narcissist writes movie scripts.

Therefore, he says to himself: “I thought about her correctly and adequately when I met her. My perception of her was correct. Everything is fine with me. She is the one who has changed. Why she changed so much - I don’t know. This is all the influence of her envious friends. Her family is turning her against me. Is she mentally ill or is she physically ill. Perhaps some medications affected her.

Manic delusional disorder. In this case, the inability to recognize a reality different from the one in which they believe.

If reality is no different from fantasy, you are a robot.

If you think that reality is just living a comfortable life and following your own whims, can you seriously dare to call yourself a soldier?