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to silently understand each other is only the result of very long and intelligent conversations, and not the “magic of love”. And that also takes maturity.
There is no need to go crazy if your needs and desires coincide with the needs and desires of another.
And here you have to catch this difference between desire and need. You may want this guy, but you certainly don't need him.
The popularization of science is, first of all, the formation of the need for scientific worldview knowledge.
You want to be desired. Like all of us.
Life - even with its inevitable trauma, pain, suffering and death - is a gift. A gift we neglect when we make ourselves prisoners of our fears, wounds, pain, shame, feelings of superiority or inferiority, our need for power and control. To exalt the gift of life means to find this gift in everything that happens around us, even in the most difficult moments, even when we are not sure that we can survive. We just need to glorify life - that's all. Live with joy, love and passion.
You said that you should always follow your heart. Eating and drinking if you want is too easy. But seeing you is always so hard.
Self-realization, knowledge of the world and a meaningful life as the main spiritual needs, contain a source of inexhaustible motivation for their own satisfaction, but only if their value is comprehended and accepted.
Production cannot be defined as the satisfaction of needs, because production itself creates needs.
Source of motivation? Conscious needs. The higher they are, the higher she is.
If every need were immediately satisfied, the idea of reality might never arise.
Two principles constantly struggle in a person, of which one attracts him to the active activity of the spirit, to spiritual work in the name of the ideal, and the other seeks to paralyze this activity, to drown out the higher needs of the spirit, to make existence carnal, meager and vile. This second beginning is true philistinism; the tradesman sits in every person, always ready to lay his deadening hand on him as soon as his spiritual energy weakens. It is in the struggle with oneself, which includes the struggle with the outside world, that moral life consists, which therefore has as its condition this fundamental dualism of our existence, the struggle of two souls that live in one body not only in Faust, but also in every person.
There is another aspect of the need for freedom and autonomy. Other things being equal, when faced with information that contradicts their beliefs, people seek, if possible, to find counterarguments. In this way they can keep their own opinions from being over-influenced by others and protect their own sense of autonomy.
There was something childish about the need for adults to tell moral stories. Adults kept a naive belief that by telling children an inspiring story - the right story at the right time - you can cheer them up, motivate them to grandiose accomplishments, and generally change reality. However, there was no need to explain to parents that life is much more complicated and multifaceted, and words do not have the magical effect that adults rely on.
attention. Understanding your own needs for affection and satisfying the same needs of a partner is the key to love to the grave,
