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We forget how much we love being read to. And as long as the children are ready to listen to you read (and almost all children are ready to do this, even the terrible stubborn twelve or thirteen year olds), read to them! When reading aloud, the parent receives just as much as the child. This deepens the relationship.
“They all think that we haven’t changed, those damn parents of ours,” said Flavio. - Their world is an island, fishing boats, village gossip and the damned Festival of St. Agatha...
The narcissist becomes asexual after such betrayal and betrayal. This is the exact opposite of cuckolding. Cuckolds get sexual arousal from betrayal and betrayal. Their libido increases, not decreases. They are not depressed. They're just in pain.
Quote Explanation: “Narcissistic fantasy of betrayal.”
We must always say thank you - mothers are like that. But children have other tasks. Children need to dream.
The narcissist simply needs to separate from the intimate partner, because if he does not do this, a repetition of the horrific dynamic relating to the real mother will occur. This dynamic includes life-threatening shame and other negative effects.
Many, without thinking about the future, live for the sake of their children. As a result, when children grow up and leave the family, it turns out that parents do not have their own interests and activities. All this leads to the fact that such people grow old very quickly. Therefore, before this happens, it is useful to remember yourself before parenthood and then set an example for your children how to live, enjoying every moment.
Encourage your children to take up combat sports and they will learn about life before mastering technique!
Quote Explanation: Education through Sports!
Even when parents have good intentions, their words often contain disapproval.
- You know, it often seems to us that mothers don’t think about us at all, they scold us, find fault with little things, punish us and don’t want to understand us at all. But believe me, mothers love us very much. Even when they block the cards or leave them with some aunts.
One of the most barbaric ways to enforce discipline from a child is to give him a good scare.
Setting rules does not require aggressiveness. If the rules are implicated in the parent’s anger, then the child will be depressed or angry with the parents and constantly fight with them.
Punishment is one of the most difficult methods of education; it is very difficult to apply it correctly. In addition, the effectiveness of punishment is quite low, and often it teaches the child not so much to behave correctly as to hide his wrong actions.
The rain also cried about something and stopped delicately, just as it had begun.
Quarrels between parents in front of a child deal crushing blows to the personal status of all participants in the scandal. If mom yells at dad, and dad yells at mom, then the child draws conclusions about both dad and mom, and these conclusions are not in favor of the parents. If parents treat each other with disrespect, then the child will not respect them either, and both of them, there will be no gain for anyone.
You become an adult not when you start arguing with your parents, but when you realize that your parents were right.
