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Human psychology will continue to establish a balanced relationship with the environment. When the external world is too complex and cannot be changed, the heart adapts to it and accepts it. It looks like a pumpkin crushed with iron. The inside of the pumpkin will continue to harden and become as hard as wood. If a person is imprisoned and loses all his personal freedom, and if he feels that his life is under threat, he gradually gives up his dignity for survival and pleases his captors in exchange for resources for survival.

The template was completely simple: a guy and a girl meet, start living together, if everything goes smoothly, they get married and have children. And everything is taken for granted. If at any stage the relationship breaks down, well, they didn’t get along. Not your man. And what else do they come up with, just so as not to try to figure out what the problem is... I assessed my behavior, found it acceptable, was upset that I was wrong again, and then changed the terms and added them together, wondering why the result was the same same. I obeyed an internal scheme, led a cyclical life, made the same mistakes and did not notice it. But when I committed an act that was atypical for myself, an error was recorded in my head, like in a program, and the usual reaction pattern was disrupted, which allowed me to notice an unfortunate fact: what was happening to me was a repetition with slight variations of what had happened. And I had to critically re-evaluate all those patterns of perception and behavior patterns that I had managed to pick up from society in order to finally get out of the shell of delusions. This is a difficult and long path, but I no longer want to remain a hopeless, stubborn sheep.

Reading aloud before bed allows dad and sons to spend time together and builds a strong bond with each other. It also has a positive effect on the relationship between fathers and daughters

The ability to love one man or one woman is, of course, a talent. Which only a few have!

No need to go to breakfast with your idols!

A long-term marriage is not an easy thing. So difficult that most of those familiar with it sometimes wonder: “Are we still together because it’s love, or am I just not up to the task of opening up to someone new again?”

We forget how much we love being read to. And as long as the children are ready to listen to you read (and almost all children are ready to do this, even the terrible stubborn twelve or thirteen year olds), read to them! When reading aloud, the parent receives just as much as the child. This deepens the relationship.

Geniuses are lonely because they cannot communicate with others.

It's always easier to deal with other people's families than with your own.

In adult life, the priorities are mainly family, work, personal growth, and friendship is often undervalued. However, without strong connections and quality friendships, there is no social development or a fulfilling and interesting life. Friendship has a huge resource: the environment affects the quality of our emotional life, the feeling of its fullness and self-worth has a very tangible effect on us in retirement age.

Love without wings has earthly relationships.

To “be recognized” as a perverted narcissist, you must STRIVE to be in a relationship with the narcissist, despite the abuse committed against you. You must ACTIVELY seek a relationship with a narcissist and ONLY a narcissist, no matter what your past experiences (bitter and traumatic) have been. You should feel EMPTY and UNSATISFIED in relationships with ANY OTHER type of person. Only in this case, provided that you meet other diagnostic criteria for Dependent Personality Disorder, can you safely be called a “perverted narcissist.”

Romantic relationships can be both the source of our joy, pride, inspiration, and the point of our painful experiences, serious disappointments, and deepest regrets. There is no doubt that the most significant relationship violation, leading to a number of negative consequences in all areas of our lives, is infidelity.

The main thing for a human being is a safe and lasting attachment, which people ignorant of science call love.