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Sometimes, our expectations do not completely coincide with the result ... The one whom we consider a vile enemy all our lives, in fact, turns out to be the most faithful comrade. The answers to difficult questions often lie on the surface. We ourselves complicate our lives without even realizing it.
Everyone has expectations. Disappointment is a way of life.
When you base your expectations only on what you see, you close your eyes to the possibilities of a new reality.
We tend to put those we love on a pedestal. And the more painful it is to find out that they do not meet our expectations.
Expectations need to be met and sometimes exceeded.
However, we must admit everything frankly: whether the nerve was upset, whether from new impressions in a new apartment, from the recent blues, but little by little and gradually, from the very onset of dusk, I began to fall into that state of mind that so often comes to me now, and which I call mystical horror. This is the most severe, painful fear of something that I myself cannot define, something incomprehensible and non-existent in the order of things, but which will certainly, perhaps, this very minute, come true, as if in a mockery of all the arguments of reason will come to it will appear before me as an irresistible fact, terrible, ugly and implacable. This fear usually grows stronger and stronger, in spite of any arguments of reason, so that finally the mind, in spite of the fact that at these moments, perhaps even greater clarity, nevertheless loses all possibility of opposing sensations. They do not obey him, he becomes useless, and this dichotomy further increases the fearful longing of expectation. It seems to me that this is partly the longing of people who are afraid of the dead. But in my anguish, the uncertainty of the danger further aggravates the torment.
“The word“ kill ”can be applied not only to animate objects. Take, for example, the expression "kill time". Perhaps the women you are talking about are ready to kill their standards and expectations?
What you least expect happened in my life too often: it was one of the unwritten laws of emigration.
When you stop playing "Will it or will not work", the doubt goes away, and you just start doing what you need to do. As a rule, the result exceeds all expectations. Doubt steals inner strength, and action cultivates. The choice is yours.
We are all different, but we expect the same behavior from each other.
These inflated expectations from gymnasts are infuriate. These guys who say, "Mm.... You're a gymnast, you probably do this in bed!" If there is a tape, a hoop and a ball - I can arrange a show!" ... There is this myth that twine helps to surprise in bed. Twine in bed helped me only once, when I tucked the blanket into the duvet cover, keep the corners.
Release Date: 27.08.2021
The speaker's capabilities are very similar to the technical characteristics of a car, if it is appropriate to draw such an analogy. When you read the technical characteristics of the car, it becomes clear what to expect from it during operation. There is no “technical specification” attached to the speaker. Each speaker has to compose it for himself.
“You are not just a fake, you are a soulless creature.
He tried to guess what was expected of him, and to justify these expectations. He always strived to please both and the greatest test for him was those moments when the desires of the parents' expectations diverged.
… Everything must be done deliberately, deliberately, in order to know in advance what to expect.
