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Strange but true: as soon as people get married, cease to protect the dignity of each other, and with terrible ease allow something that should not be allowed.

- It will disappear someday, Claire? The desire disappear?
My head fell back on his shoulder.
I don't know, Jamie. Really don't know.

On the ring are the initials. Suddenly, these spouses live nearby?
Suddenly, they're near dead? A hundred years ago.

And the monk Varlaam? This is truly the figure of a curious, deep, Russian. Such a man lived in the era of Ivan the terrible. Gains somewhere in the North. He served as a priest in a small temple. His name was at that time Vasily. Mentioned his hot temper, the purity of the faith, fearlessness in spiritual work. Since the ascetic is strong, it means that the devil does not sleep. Fought a young priest to idolatry by local fishermen. The devil could not stand, and left, promising to avenge the ascetic. Compelled it to Basil that his wife committed the sin of adultery. Like Vasily it with my own eyes saw. Decided to "chastise" mother, to do religious rites. And during the ceremony - whether by accident, not by chance you? - priestly thrust a spear that the Holy communion in the altar is prepared, in the heart of his beloved wife. Whether the devil so cleverly played their parts, whether the jealousy in the young priest leaped, but the mother was not to blame.
Buried the body of his wife in the churchyard. He went to the Confessor to the monastery. The Abbot gave him a new name Barlaam and put a strange penance. Ordered to dig up the body, to sit in a boat and drive it along the coast of the Barents and White seas. And to fast, to pray until, until the body of his wife will not rot. Three years Varlaam obediently executed the orders of the Abbot, suffered hunger and cold, and prayed, lamented. The day came, when the monk was forgiven. Sent in such cases special signs. In a narrow water Strait, which is due to marine worms were dying ships and people, Varlaam was able to hold the boat. "Drill ship" retreated from those places, and that was evidence of forgiveness. The miracle was performed.
I do not consider this story a fairy tale. In allegorical form the history of this repentance, which changes the human soul as a matrix.
From the point of view of psychology, much is clear: the person who commits a sin, feels a strong physical impact. The stronger the sin, the deeper the wound. If the wound is not treated by repentance, and be drawn into the nostrils the powder, or pour a wine pain, sin for a time ceases to be felt. But the wound is not tightened, it bleeds. There are deep feelings of sin, strong remorse that causes a person to change substantially. He can not be the same. This is not for everyone.



Explanation of the quote:

Thinking of the nature of repentance.
from the novel "Psychologist and a psychopath".

I secretly tell you, but classic family is the relationship of the manipulator and the victim. Most often, the manipulator - wife. If a man knows that you manipulated, it means you are inept manipulator. If you don't suspect that your wife is manipulating you, my applause, your wife's a Pro. She is a master of manipulation and NLP.

Ross lifted her hand to his face.
- You do listen? asked Demelza after a while.
He burst into laughter.
- Okay, you caught me. Yes, I listen to something - your heart beating.
- So not very convenient.
Ross slowly leaned over and put his head on her left breast.
- It is there.
He released her hand and cupped her breast with his palm.

- After tonight, you're probably exhausted.
- That's for sure... But how do you think, do I not remember being away from home?
- I hope so.
- Do you think I don't remember that night, when I returned from Saul after catching sardines? Then everything was different. That night I fell in love with you. First it was only physical attraction... But without feelings is nothing. Should not even remember. Just a miserable race. Fortunately, since then between us, this was not.

- What now? asked Ross.
You said it right, though not quite. What happened today between us - not normal. Our senses have long had to cool off become calmer. And I feel like the first time you took me to bed in this room. I remember wearing the dress your mother.
- You seduced me.
And when it was over, it wasn't. You lit another candle.
- Wanted to get to know you in the morning.

Lies in the relationship between spouses is inevitable, and sometimes necessary.

It is naive to think that after the wedding, the partner will change. There are hidden disadvantages. So the compatibility should be checked in a civil marriage.
- That's for sure. You can also check how good are children with this partner.

Put your child and wife in the first place is the best way to keep the family unified and strong.

Françoise, the woman artlessly besides not having a minute of free time, are not encumbered with abstract thoughts about the difference between the duty of the mother and the duty of the father and without hesitation risked his life, protecting at the same time from the illness of her husband. The life of the outstanding scientist was too precious to jeopardize her. He doesn't interfere - not out of cowardice but simply because he never in anything didn't interfere.

- <...> But most importantly - it inspired fear.
Fear, Ross? What are you afraid of?
- To lose you.
It's highly unlikely.
- I do not mean another man, although this is not good. I'm talking about the physical loss, I'm afraid to lose you as a person, as a companion, with whom I spent close to a lifetime. You understand that the time will come, will surely come a time when I will not hear your voice or you mine? This probably sounds cheesy, but for me that thought is unbearable, monstrous...

When they brought the dinner, Ross hardly ate anything.
- You hungry?
- Just tired. Tired of talking, tired of arguing, tired to ask questions and to ride.
- Eat something.
'No,' said Ross, ' I only want you.